A Special Soul
There are those among us who possess a “special soul.” These individuals are both blessed and cursed with a heart that is so caring it becomes almost painful. My son is one of these unique human beings.
As many of you know, Patrick graduated from The University of Arizona in December. Until July he continued working in a group home in Tucson to fulfill his contractual obligation. He was responsible for all aspects of personal care for three severely handicapped gentlemen - and I mean ALL aspects. Tom and I loved to hear him talk about his clients. There was a gentleness in his voice whenever he shared stories about “his boys.” He treated them as friends and helped and encouraged them to improve their functional levels. Keep in mind, these men were the “throw aways” of our society. Patrick brought dignity and meaning to their lives. It was very hard for Patrick to quit this job, and he still frequently travels to Tucson for visits.
When his job ended, he was a bit “up in the air” about what direction his life should go. Thanks to Kelli, a dear family friend, he was put in touch with Magellan Health Services. Apparently the people who conducted the interview were able to peek into his “special soul” because he was hired on the spot. He is now a full-fledged case manager with a case load that is astronomical. He does everything from evaluations to delivering food boxes. His clients all have some form of mental illness. Some are affected only in a minor way, but most are severely impacted by these illnesses. Patrick’s job takes him everywhere - prisons, doctor’s offices, emergency rooms, court rooms, and homes where he is either welcomed or decidedly not welcomed. His job is to assign and coordinate services for his many clients.
I wish you could hear him tell us about his job. Palpable tenderness and empathy seem to surround him. I’m positive that his SPECIAL SOUL will be a positive force in the lives of the people he helps.

Having a Special Soul also helps you to be a
SUPER UNCLE.