The Bank Of Dad Has Closed
For the last several years the Big Irishman has been eagerly anticipating an event that most fathers experience when their last child graduates from college: closing the doors of THE BANK OF DAD. Ha.
On Saturday our son, Thomas Patrick Brennan, graduated from the University of Arizona with a degree in Clinical Psychology. It was a very exciting and moving experience for all of us. I cried when I saw my handsome son in the processional at the beginning of the ceremony. I simply couldn’t believe that he had chosen to wear a tie, dress pants, and descent shoes - all without a word of nagging from Mom.
This is my kid and did I mention that he’s a college graduate?
As I was sitting in my seat listening to the Dean dispense words of wisdom in his opening remarks, my mind began to wander. I spent several minutes remembering other educational milestones in my son’s life. Perhaps one of the most poignant occurred over twenty years ago during the ride home from preschool. I was simply trying to get him to share the details of his day when I asked, “Patrick, what did you learn in school today?” Probably hoping to put an end to my incessant questioning, he calmly replied, “Mom, I learned it all.” Well, I don’t believe for a moment that a degree means he has indeed “learned it all,” but he has learned enough to make his way in the world.
As I glanced over at Tom, we made eye contact, and I noticed that he was also a little misty. We share a tremendous pride in our son’s accomplishments, and an abiding love for the man he has become. We look forward to sharing with him the life experiences that will help to build his future.
A special family moment. Tom looks so proud and I look so old.
Now about that “Bank of Dad” thing. I’m just gonna let Tom believe that the BANK OF DAD has closed its doors. But in truth, it is only under new management. THE BANK OF GRANDMA is now open for business.
africankelli Says:
Holy moly Patrick graduated! Congrats Patrick!